(You’re probably not the only one.)
Whether you’re here out of curiosity, confusion, desire, or quiet panic — welcome.
This space is designed for honesty, not performance. Below, you’ll find answers to some of the most common (and unspoken) questions people have before working with me, Lisa Opel — your confidante for real talk about sex, intimacy, shame, and the things you’ve never said out loud.
Not at all. This space is about you, not your setup. Audio-only sessions are completely fine. Feel free to join in your bathrobe, from your bed—any way that feels safe and comfortable for you.
Maybe a little — and in the absolute best way. Talking about sex, shame, fantasies, or long-held desires can feel foreign at first. But once you begin, the relief of being truly listened to often comes quickly.
Maybe a little — and in the absolute best way. Talking about sex, shame, fantasies, or long-held desires can feel foreign at first. But once you begin, the relief of being truly listened to often comes quickly.
This space is for humans — not genders. Whether you’re a man, a woman, non-binary, queer, questioning, kinky, monogamous, polyamorous, celibate, confused, or craving more… you’re welcome here. I work with people of all identities and orientations who want to speak honestly about sex, intimacy, shame, longing, and the messy beauty of being human.
Anyone craving a safe space to explore sex, shame, intimacy, and desires
Folks feeling stuck in patterns or uncertainty with partners
Anyone with fantasies they’ve never voiced
People curious about identity, kink, non-monogamy, or their own emotional landscape
Absolutely — I work with pairs, lovers, friends, or anyone exploring intimacy together.
If you’d like to book a session with two people and me, just send me a quick message first. We’ll make sure it’s the right fit, set clear intentions, and I’ll guide you through how to book. Sessions with more than one person are priced individually (or we can arrange a longer session if needed).
Every dynamic is unique — and I’d be honored to hold space for yours.
That’s precisely why this space exists. No topic is off-limits. I hold space for what you’ve never said out loud—nonjudgmental, compassionate, and with deep respect for your story.
Nope. I’m a confidante—someone who holds space, offers reflection, and helps you speak the things you’ve carried in silence. If deeper therapeutic support is needed, I have a trusted network to refer you to.
Perfectly normal. This session isn’t a show—it’s a sanctuary. Whatever feelings come up—awkwardness, curiosity, tears, arousal—they’re all welcome. No pressure. No judgment.
After you book, I’ll send you a little something — not a cold questionnaire. Think of it as a gentle check-in: a few prompts to help you feel into what’s alive, curious, confusing, or craving attention right now.
It’s also for me — a way to get a sense of what might be bubbling beneath the surface, so I can show up with open ears and the right kind of questions. And don’t worry, I’m not giving your answers side-eye. I’m genuinely here to hype you, hear you, and hold space for whatever wants to come up.
You’ll also get a short inspiration sheet from me — thoughts, questions, and ideas to stir your inner world a bit before we meet. Nothing you have to “complete” — just gentle sparks to help you arrive more fully.
This is not a sexual performance space — I’m not a cam girl.
That said, you might feel aroused during our conversation. That’s okay. We may even explore some guided practices that involve breath, sensation, or body awareness. These are somatic tools to help you connect to your experience, not an invitation to perform or seek visual stimulation.
If you’re unsure whether something’s appropriate, just ask. I will always guide with clarity and care.
However, any non-consensual behavior or boundary violations will lead to the immediate end of the session with no refund. This is a space for honesty and embodiment — not sexual entertainment.
One-on-one, online, at your chosen pace
You bring any topic—fantasy, shame, desire, confusion
I listen deeply, ask thoughtful questions and reflections
You leave feeling heard, held, and clearer on what’s next
It’s real-time, honest, and led entirely by your truth
English and German—either or both are fine. I’ll follow your linguistic lead to help you feel seen and heard in your own voice.
Every session is 45 minutes — no intro chats, no fluff.
I don’t believe in “getting to know you” in fifteen awkward minutes. We go deeper than that, always.
The price is €150 per session, with bundle options available if you want to keep the conversation going.
You can choose your slot through my Google Calendar booking link — smooth, simple, and just for you. And then I will send you a payment link.
Not sure if it’s your vibe? Watch some of my content first. My TEDx talk, my podcast, my voice — they’ll give you a real taste of what you’re getting into. And if you’re still curious? That’s your sign.
1 Session | A single deep dive. Perfect for clarity, release, or that one thing you’ve been carrying alone. | €150
3 Sessions | For when one conversation isn’t quite enough. Explore, untangle, and come back to yourself over time. | €420 (€140/session)
5 Sessions | Ongoing support and space to really go there. Great for deeper exploration or big transitions. | €650 (€130/session)
If you book a single session and decide you’d like to continue, you can always upgrade to a bundle. I’ll apply the price of your first session toward the package — no penalty, no pressure.
Just reach out, and I’ll sort the rest.
Beautiful. If you’re craving longer-term support or want to work together more regularly, just reach out. We’ll find a rhythm that feels good for both of us — no pressure, no formality, just a real connection.
You can reschedule at no cost up to 24 hours before your session. Cancellations within 24 hours are non-refundable, but I’ll do my best to offer another opening when possible.
All sessions are confidential — always.
But if you’re open to it, I sometimes ask to record our session. This can be helpful if you’d like me to reflect more deeply afterwards or send you a thoughtful follow-up.
Occasionally, I may also ask permission to draw from parts of our conversation — anonymously and respectfully — as inspiration for a blog post, podcast episode, or short story.
You’ll receive a clear legal document where you can opt in or out, with total freedom to set limits or say no. No pressure, no impact on the session.
Your words, your boundaries, your call.
Nothing will ever be shared without your full, enthusiastic, and informed consent.
Permission to speak without filters
Clarity about your desires and boundaries
Say goodbye to solitary shame
Renewed connection—to yourself, your partner, your life
